2023/06 Ship's Log

Amie and I went to our first play of the year at Black Hills Playhouse. What an enchanting venue, nestled deep in the Ponderosa pine, a tinkling creek winding between the campus buildings, and the cabin smell of the impressively professional stage room.

The play was outstanding. Funny, thought-provoking, and engrossing. When it travels, see it where you are.

https://www.blackhillsplayhouse.com/thelifespanofafact

On this day in 2020 I wrote,

How does one stand in a line that wraps the DMV for two hours without growing irritable? It helps a lot to be reading about the suffering of six million Black Americans. “The Warmth of Other Suns” by Isabel Wilkerson.

Wilkerson’s #book was on my mind last night, as was Derek Bell’s “Faces At the Bottom of the Well”. My #conversion is ongoing, but I’m deeper than I was. Many thanks to my Uncle Mark for the timely recommendation three years ago!

#AmericanHistory

I hiked my first leg of the #CentennialTrail last week!

I had to lower the entry barrier from a two-day hike to one, but an unexpected detour still made for a nine mile hike. More to come, but here’s my write-up of the journey.

Centennial Trail Episode #1

As of mid-May Royal is officially potty trained! Guess how many diapers I changed this week? Go ahead, I’ll wait.

Zero? ZERO? YES!!!!!

Royal standing next to his potty training chart with all the stickers filled in.

We purchased a swing for the boys at the start of May. There’s been so much laughter since.

Graham and Royal on a blue and yellow trampoline swing under our Ash tree.
Graham, Royal and Selah swinging together.

Our good friend, and Royal’s godmother, Kati Ray, came to visit us in early May!

Kati brought gifts…

Royal opening a sensory bin with Kati Ray.
Kati brought Graham and Royal sensory bin gifts.

We went hiking…

Kati holding Royal on a hiking trail.
We went hiking...
Kati holding Royal on a hiking trail in a crevasse.
Royal in a boonie hat and blue swim goggles, wearing a grey backpack, ready for a hike.

Visited Crazy Horse Memorial…

The Crazy Horse granite mountain carving.

And dropped by cousin Sarah’s Keystone convenience store for some Sarsaparilla!

Kati, Amie and Alex holding bottles of sarsaparilla on the wooden deck of Sarah's Keystone convenience and gas station.

It’d be impossible to overemphasize how happy we were to see Kati. So, so wonderful.

I’ve been on an unscheduled hiatus in May. We began to host visitors and I was battling some discouragement from some ministry opportunities that may be delayed. I’ll catch you up on the highlights soon!

Graham’s birthday party was a space theme this year. We held it at a nearby park. So many people showed up. Comically, I don’t have many pictures of the birthday boy himself. He spent most of the time playing far from the action.

Graham's birthday cake with a golden five and an astronaut on top, with Royal in the background making a funny face.
All the party goers around the birthday table. In order from left-to-right: Gina and Reese, Amie, Nate with his daughter on his shoulders, Flora and Augustus at the table, William and his wife behind, with Graham and Kyle at the table, Cora with Flora's mom behind, Grandpa Tom, then Lily, Royal, and Jorgen seated at the table, Levi in sunglasses behind Uncle Tom, then John and finally Teresa. Whew!
Graham opening presents. The kiddos are, from left-to-right, Flora, Kyle, Graham and Augustus.
A rare sighting of Graham. He dropped in to open presents.
A cross-section of Graham's cake. There's a sun in the middle and planets along the side. The astronaut is placed next to the cake slice.
Amie received well-deserved praise for her incredible cake. If she were British I'd volunteer her for the Great British Bakeoff.

Basement renovations are well on their way thanks to our friend and local contractor Steve and his family.

The basement bedroom with new sheetrock on the walls and a closet frame in the corner.

And some funny pictures, just for a laugh.

Graham drawing an outline around Alex on the driveway concrete, like a chalk outline of a murder scene.
Graham's hard at work on his forensic skills.
Graham and Royal peeking out from a small cave high up on a rock face.
We discovered a walk-in cave not far from our home thanks to our neighbor Nicole.
Graham and Royal making funny faces in front of a trail sign for Coon Hollow.
I wish there were a poo fairy...
Royal bear-crawling on rocks across a stream.
Those in the Black Hills are on the lookout for the elusive Royal bear.
Graham wincing at being sprayed by water at a local water park.
Royal furiously eating an ear of corn.

We were amazed to discover that a friend of Amie’s, Jim Walker, from her days in Pittsburgh was riding the bus to Crazy Horse Memorial with us! He’s suffered terribly in the intervening years since the Hot Metal church plant, but Holy Spirit sent Amie and I to encourage him that his work has not been in vain.

Jim Walker, Alex and Amie before the Crazy Horse Memorial.

For Graham’s birthday he and I went on our first camping trip together!

We set up the tent, explored the area, started a campfire, and roasted hot dogs and s’mores. Graham was so excited the first night that he couldn’t stop moving until nearly nine o’clock.

Graham and Alex in front of their tent at Grizzly Bear Primitive campsite #10.

Since we had to reserve at least two nights, we picked up Amie and Royal and all of us stayed overnight for the second evening.

Graham had to work through some feelings when we arrived back at the campsite with Amie and Royal. He was happy that Royal was there, but also disappointed that he no longer enjoyed the woods undisturbed. But he and Royal got through it and had a glorious time pretending to be pterodactyls.

Graham and Royal celebrating in the woods.
Graham's happy dance is amazing.

My friends Tommy, Gerry, Kim and Jennifer dropped in at the campsite. They’re in the Black Hills looking for a plot of land to bootstrap a retreat center. So glad we could visit with them!

Tommy, Kim, Alex, Gerry, Graham and Jennifer around a picnic table at the campsite.

Not long after the boys were put to bed it began to rain. Amie and I sat in the car to chat, but when we went to our tents I discovered Royal fast asleep on an island in the center of a pool of rainwater. I was ready to call it quits but Amie suggested we could fit into the two-person with she and Graham. So that’s what we did, though I joked that I’ll have more room in my coffin.

In spite of the tight squeeze and being cold, both boys thought the camping trip was spectacular and can’t wait to go again.

The day after our camping trip Royal tripped and smashed his forehead into a wall corner, knocking a gouge almost a half-inch long into his forehead. Blood everywhere. Shouting, cursing, and crying galore.

Gratefully we were able to get Royal in to see his regular doctor instead of the ER. It was a simple steri-strip and glue job. It took awhile for the adrenaline to run down.

Royal asleep in his carseat with a bandage on his forehead between his eyes.